Category: Beat Depression

3 Fun Ways To Beat Depression Naturally

3 Fun Ways To Beat Depression Naturally

Woman on Bicycle with Legs OutstretchedAre you tired of letting stress and depression take over your life? I know exactly how you feel. Anxiety and mood swings can create a black cloud of negativity that seems to follow you around everywhere you go. If you’re sick and tired of sitting around letting depression take swings at you, then it may be time to start fighting back.

I know what you’re thinking. You simply don’t have the energy to put up a fight, right? I hear you, but at the same time, you should know that the longer you allow yourself to be kicked around by your own negative thoughts and emotions, the harder it will be to pick yourself up. As hard as it may seem, it’s something you simply have to do for yourself if you want to come out on the other side and actually enjoy your life again.

Sometimes, fighting back against depression can seem like taking a dose of bad medicine. You don’t want to do it, and it isn’t pleasant, but what if I told you that there’s a way to make it taste a bit better? I think I may have that soon full of sugar you need to help the “medicine” to beat depression go down a little smoother. After all, fun is the number one anecdote for anxiety and depression, so why not use it to your advantage as you learn to deal with stress and manage your mood? Start with these techniques:

• Challenge Yourself

Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but simply didn’t think you had what it took? Maybe you’d like to go skydiving, for instance, or run a 5K. Whatever it is, make up your mind and go for it; there’s no time like the present! Plus, stepping outside of your comfort zone can help you feel reinvigorated and full of new vitality. It can also give you the shift in perspective you need to beat depression and start loving life again. Although most any challenge will do, a physical one that requires practice or training will have the added benefit of alleviating anxiety. After all, if you’ve ever done any research on alleviating stress, you know that exercise is key.

• Get a Hobby

Stress and depression simply cannot coexist with some good old-fashioned fun. If you’re looking for a solution for how to deal with stress or beat depression, try picking up a new hobby. I know, I know—your schedule is already crammed and you barely have the time to check off all of the must-do items on your to-do list. I get it. I really, really do. But, here’s the thing—you can take an hour out of your day to do something you really enjoy to ward off stress and depression or you can keep running around like a crazy person trying to please everyone else and never experiencing any real joy or contentment. My advice? Get a hobby, and protect your “me time” fiercely.

• Play with a Kid

When it comes to learning how to really let go and enjoy life, there are no better teachers than children. Play with your own kids or borrow some from a friend *wink*, and seize the opportunity to spend your day pretending to be a princess or building a fort. Play is therapeutic, mostly because it forces you into the present moment, and don’t worry—you’re never too old to be a kid at heart.

Warm Regards,
Melissa

3 Things To Stop If You Want to Beat Depression

3 Things To Stop If You Want to Beat Depression

stop high interestI know you’re inundated with advice about how to beat depression. Articles abound about the need to exercise more, eat better, and practice various meditation methods in order to ward off the blues. While all of this is good advice, there are some things you need to stop doing as well if you want to beat depression once and for all.

Bad habits are hard to break. If you’ve ever battled an addiction to cigarettes or alcohol, then you know this better than anyone. Even if you’ve been fortunate enough to avoid those big obstacles, though, you no doubt have a habit you’d like to get rid of it. Maybe you’re a nail biter or a midnight snacker? The point is that negative thought patterns are just like bad habits. They soon become such a routine part of our lives that we let them take control without giving much thought to the matter at all. Pretty soon, though, self-defeating thoughts take their toll, and before you know it, you can’t even get out of bed. I know. I’ve been there.

There’s good news, though. Habits can be broken; it just takes a little work. If you’re willing to put in the effort, you’ll reap the benefits of more peace and joy than you’ve experienced in a long time. Now, that’s a powerful motivator. Ready to get started? Here are the things you need to stop doing today in order to beat depression:

• Stop Trying to Please Everyone

You can’t please everyone all of the time, and trying to do so is just setting yourself up for failure. You exhaust all of your resources, neglect yourself, and at the end of the day, there’s still someone who’s unhappy for whatever reason. Start putting yourself first, and then make a list of the priority people in your life. Focus on meeting your needs and being available for the people who matter (and who appreciate you) the most.

• Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

You are a unique creature with your own gifts to offer the world. Whatever someone else has that you think you don’t is really none of your business. That’s part of their life’s purpose, not yours. Focus on what you do have and use these gifts to the best of your ability. Looking at someone else with jealousy is no more than a distraction, and if you let it, this bad habit will suck all of the joy right out of your life.

• Stop Beating Yourself Up

Most people in today’s society are ridden with guilt. This guilt may come from something they’ve done in the past or failing to live up to their own (or others’) unrealistic expectations. Guilt, however, is another one of those joy-sapping emotions that will leave you feeling sad and hopeless. Instead of beating yourself up over what you perceive as the mistakes in your life, celebrate your succeeds daily—even the small ones.

While putting a stop to negative emotions is a fundamental part of the recipe to beat depression, don’t discount the value of meditation methods. Although they are not all alike, many meditation methods can put you in the right frame of mind for letting go of negative thought patterns and replacing them with positive ones.

All the Best,
Melissa

3 Proactive Ways To Beat Depression

3 Proactive Ways To Beat Depression

A Middle Eastern woman lying down readingHave you had a touch of the blues lately? If you’ve ever dealt with serious depression, then you can probably see the warning signs coming. Perhaps you feel slightly lethargic, or maybe you’ve struggled to pull yourself out of bed the last few days. If you suspect a full-on depressive episode is about to hit, don’t wait until it’s got you in its snares. Do something about it now, and you may be able to avoid the worst of it. Here are some proactive ways to beat depression:

• Catch Your Negative Thoughts

Although we each have thousands upon thousands of different thoughts racing through our heads every single day, most of us are too busy to keep track of them all. The trouble is that even when we don’t stop to be fully aware of negative thoughts, they can still affect our behaviors, perceptions, and yes—moods! To catch these negative thoughts before they sweep you away in a cloud of depression, keep a thought journal for a week. Every time you are aware of a negative thought, jot it down. At the end of the week, look for patterns of negative thoughts that are holding you back from feeling the complete joy and contentment you deserve. Then, create a counter-thought for each of the negative thoughts you commonly experience. When the negative thought comes to mind, unleash your counterattack and replace it with a positive thought instead. This is a sure-fire way to beat depression back and keep it from hijacking your mood.

• Beware the Company You Keep

Not only are you likely to be judged by the company you keep, but your mood may be defined by it as well. You know those people that seem to have a unique talent for putting a negative slant on just about anything? They can literally suck the joy right out of your life, so steer clear of them! Who knew that changing your lunch crowd could help you beat depression? Sometimes, it’s these small changes that can make a big difference!

• Try Practicing Different Meditation Methods

Sometimes depression can come about out of sheer boredom. You know how sometimes you feel like you’re stuck in this endless cycle of repeating the same day over and over again? It’s like the movie Groundhog Day, except you can’t hit the pause button. I know exactly how you feel. Everyone needs a little variety in life, and that includes your personal development efforts. Pick out one of the new meditation methods you haven’t tried before, and then change things up a bit.

Being proactive rather than reactive is almost always the best move in life. Why wait until a bad mood becomes a bad week, month, or year? Take steps daily to beat depression, and you’re sure to come out on top.

All the Best,

Melissa

What to Eat to Beat Depression

What to Eat to Beat Depression

Wondering what to eat to beat depression?  Berries are an excellent choice. If you ever wonder what to eat to beat depression, you probably already know that ice cream by the gallon is not going to make the list. Some folks find depression takes away any desire to eat at all. Either way, eating foods high in essential nutrients gives you your best defense against depression, and gives a little comfort to your soul as well.

To beat grey moods, eat Technicolor foods. Nature has been giving us easy clues for millennia. When foods are brightly colored and attractive, they are probably good for you, and they can be eaten like snacks. An easy trick to remember is that darker and richer the color, the more nutritious they are.

Some people feel better when they cook. Messing about in the kitchen certainly gives you lots of healthy food options, and is a rare opportunity to attack stress with a big, sharp knife. But if the mere idea of cooking makes you more depressed, there are plenty of foods to beat depression that work fine both in recipes or right out off the tree, bush or vine.

  • Blueberries might be one of the healthiest foods on the planet. They are a powerful source of anti-oxidants and flavonoids, and have shown to benefit both your brain and circulation. Strawberries, blackberries, and raspberries share similar high nutrient value, and taste great. Raw berries have Vitamin C, and are a perfect finger food. If you can’t get fresh berries, frozen ones are good to have on hand, though better eaten with a spoon.
  • Cherries have been used for centuries to treat inflammation, which can help ease some of the achiness of depression. Bing cherries are usually the sweetest, and are a treat for your senses.
  • Raisins and other dried fruits pack a nutritional wallop. In fact, prunes rate highest on the riboflavonoid scale. Dried berries, cherries, and apricots are easy to store and easy to eat. Just be sure to drink plenty of water as well, so you don’t dry out yourself.
  • Tomatoes, Carrots, Greens and more. If you are not well acquainted with your local produce department, it is time to make friends. Just follow your tastes and the bright color rule, and you can’t go far wrong. Deep green vegetables are an excellent source of B6, B12 and Folate, which are especially important to eat to beat depression.

Eat fish, flaxseed, or hummus for vital Omega3s. Research has shown a link between depression and a deficit of Omega3 fatty acids. Omega3 is also known to benefit heart health, circulation, and eye health, so adding more to your diet can help you in many ways.

Excellent sources of Omega3 are wild salmon, tuna, and flax seeds, and even chia seeds. If you are not a fan of fish, try hummus on whole grain crackers, or as a vegetable dip.

Turkey sandwiches for protein, carbs and tryptophan.  Turkey has long since moved away from just a holiday food, and that’s especially good if you are trying to beat depression. Turkey is a wonderful source of the amino acid tryptophan, which transforms into the feel good chemical serotonin in the brain.

The carbohydrates in whole grain bread help conduct the tryptophan to your brain, and provide B vitamins, and fiber. Turkey is also a low fat source of protein, which is important when you’re depressed. Use hummus instead of mayonnaise, add some tomato slices and dark fresh greens like spinach leaves, and you have a powerhouse anti-depression sandwich.

Dark chocolate is a mood lifter. In case you hadn’t heard, chocolate is good for you. Note I did not say “chocolates.” We are not talking bonbons or gooey candy bars here, which merely increase sugar cravings and create sugar crashes.

Dark chocolate by itself contains phenylethylamine, which has been shown to raise endorphin levels, and some compare to being in love. Chocolate with a cacao percentage of 60% works best, is lower in sugar, and if pared with nuts adds some protein and B vitamins. Melting some and dipping strawberries or dried apricots in it can make you feel truly indulgent.

Healthy comfort foods can make you feel cared for. When you were a child, did someone fix you special foods to make you feel better? Foods like chicken soup, eggnog, or custard? When you treat yourself to some of these foods, your body remembers what it felt like when someone else took care of you, and it relives those feelings of security and love.

Plus, some of our favorite comfort foods are truly good for us. Eggnog and custard, for example, contain protein from both milk and eggs, vitamins A, D, and B complex, calcium, iron, and lutein. Egg yolks also contain choline, which research links to a healthy brain.

Nature is abundant with what to eat to beat depression. And as long as you get the good things you need first, curling up with a little ice cream won’t hurt.

For further reading:

Foods That Harm, Foods That Heal, (2004), Reader’s Digest Books, Pleasantville, New York.

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How to Beat Depression When Unemployed

How to Beat Depression When Unemployed

Keeping up on things is one way to beat depression when unemployedIn earlier articles, we looked at how to deal with the stress of unemployment. But how do you beat depression when you become unemployed? What you do when first lose your job can make a big difference in how you feel later. A large part of beating depression happens if you can head it off before it starts.

Write down every good thing about yourself that you can think of. You probably have a lot of good work experience, but you also have talents and inner qualities that go far beyond your resume. As soon as you have gotten over the shock of being unemployed, start a list of all the great things that make you who you are. It is important to do this at the onset, before job hunting starts taking bites out of your self esteem.

You don’t have to do this all in one day. Keep the list open, and whenever you remember some success you had, or a time when you made someone’s day, jot it down. Ask friends and family what they consider your best qualities. You might be astonished at how much good they see.

Get up and get dressed every day. You don’t have to wear a business suit, but prepare yourself to face the day like a person with things to do. The action of dressing is like putting on armor against depression before it can hit you. It also defends you against the lure of the sofa and mindless TV.

If you are looking through job listings in a newspaper or online, being dressed makes you feel more serious about your endeavors, and reinforces that you are a person worth paying attention to.

Start your day with some exercise. Exercise will help you feel stronger and more confident, and help you order your thoughts. Without a regular work routine, it can be easy for your thinking to become disorganized, which adds to any depression you may feel. A brisk walk or workout gets your can-do attitude in line, and gives you a better chance at organizing your day.

Skip the all at once approach.  It is not uncommon to hear of someone who sent out 200 resumes and then became thoroughly depressed when they got no response. So don’t set yourself up for a major fall. You’ll usually get better results if you research companies and approach a few at a time, with a targeted message based on what each of them needs.

Don’t become discouraged if you are screened by a machine. If you held the same job for a long time, it can be a shock to learn how the job application process has changed. Where once we might have dressed up and knocked on doors, now we may find we have to be cleared by a computer before a live person ever sees our application or resume…even if the person behind the door already wants to hire us.

Rejection by a computer can be horribly depressing, and make you feel like you’ll never catch a break. To beat the depression, take out your list of good qualities, read and re-read how super you are. Breathe deeply, stand up straight, and try again.

Do everything you can to take care of yourself.  Job hunting is no easy task, and it is far too easy to jump from feeling simply unemployed to feeling worthless. You need to feel worthy of care and love, and you can help by giving yourself good food, rest, and simple treats like long hot baths to keep your health and your spirits up.

Take steps not to get isolated.  The more you feel rejected, the more depressed you can start to be, and the less likely you want to go out and be involved in life. Consider asking a friend to phone you if they don’t hear from you for a while. If you are on a downward slide, someone who cares for you can do a lot to pull you back into the world.

Meditate or pray, and picture a brighter future. It can be hard to understand, but the reason you are unemployed may have nothing to do with you and who you are. I have a whole resume listing names of companies who bit the dust, taking me and sometimes hundreds of others down with them.

Spending time with whatever you picture as your source of abundance will help you rise above the challenges you face, and be your greatest weapon to beat depression when unemployed.

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